Is It Time To Wake Up?
I want to highlight two very important observations from my coaching practice this week.
I believe two things are more true for most every real estate agent than not.
One - Fear runs your life in the following way. First, you are worried you cannot or will not achieve what you believe you need to achieve in order to be happy. Secondly, you worry you will end up getting what you don't want instead.
Two - You either believe you can make something happen that you want to have happen or you can manifest it somehow (conceive and believe) and/ or you can "hope" it into existence.
Think really hard about this.
If you take a really deep dive you will come to understand that every day of your life has been a pursuit to get more of what you want and avoid what you don't want with all your efforts driven by fear.
I know this is a pretty broad brushstroke to describe your life. However, am I that far off?
Reflect again...
Am I wrong in thinking you have spent your whole adult life trying to make happen what you think will make you happy AND...
If you really do the math...you are still wanting a very different result in your life.
No matter how hard or how long you have tried (or not tried)... somehow, life is just not conforming to your wishes in the way you want.
And the fears you have don't ever seem to go away. They may get quieter sometimes; however, they are always present as someone or something always shows up to remind you how uncertain life is.
So where am I going with all this?
It is time to wake up to the following reality...
Life is NOT going to bend to your wishes no matter how hard you try and...
There is nothing to be afraid of.
You have been worrying your whole life, always waiting for the "other shoe to drop"... something bad to happen.
Worry is simply driving with the brakes on. It accomplishes nothing positive. Eventually, worry will wear you down.
What if you took another path in life?
What if you started to give your highest and best to the natural unfolding of life?
What if you dropped worry, fear, and doubt all together?
Life rarely unfolds exactly as we want it to. And if we stop and think about it, that makes perfect sense. The scope of life is universal, and the fact that we are not actually in control of life's events should be self-evident. The universe has been around for 13.8 billion years, and the processes that determine the flow of life around did not begin when we were born, nor will they end when we die. What manifests in front of us at any given moment is something truly extraordinary - it is the end result of all the forces that have been interacting together for billions of years. We are not responsible for even the tiniest fraction of what is manifesting around us. Nonetheless, we walk around constantly trying to control and determine what will happen in our lives. No wonder there is so much tension, anxiety, and fear. Each of us actually believes that things should be the way we want them, instead of being the natural result of all the forces of creation.
And yes...
I know I am going against everything you have been taught to believe.
Your whole life you have been programmed to think...
If you want something good to happen... you have to make it happen.
How is this way of thinking really working out for you?
The reason your life is not turning out exactly the way you want...
Has nothing to do with you!!
Be very clear...
There is nothing wrong with you.... and...
You are not doing something wrong!!
There is a much bigger issue at play....
1. Knowing who you really are.
2. Understanding how things really come into existence.
If you are tired of banging your head up against the wall of life...
If you want real joy, happiness, and inner peace/ harmony...
Tune into our current 12 Week Rotation of Daily Accountability Calls.
THE TOPIC: MINDSET!!
REWIRING YOUR BRAIN TO LIVE IN A STATE OF HARMONY.
You are going to hear a completely different message than anything you have been exposed to.
We have made joining the class very simple and easy.
There is a reason things are not going the way you want in life.
Find out why and what you need to do going forward to have a very different and positive experience for the rest of your life!!
Sincerely,
Steve Shull
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